ARTICLES BY COLETA STEWART

Your ability to survive and healing after an affair will depend on your spouse expressing true remorse and on your ability to forgive him for cheating on you But Forgiving your spouse is a bitter pill to swallow especially when you first find out about the affair

When you find out that your spouse broke your marital vows and went outside your marriage, the betrayal you experience runs so deep that it shakes the very foundations of your relationship You experience an overwhelming sense of confusion, sadness, hurt, anger and grief

Dealing with infidelity is hard, probably the hardest thing you have ever gone through The feelings of anger caused by hurt and deception from someone you loved with your whole heart and soul is unbearable at times

Whether to stay married or not after the affair is a very difficult decision to make When you first learned that your spouse was or is having an affair, you now find yourself completely caught up in the very real pain of having been cheated upon and lied to

Cheating has spelled doomed for many a relationship But, when it comes to your relationship infidelity does not have to be the end of it

Extramarital affairs can be a devastating blow to a marriage The marriage after an affair will involve a lot of trust issues that can take a very long time to come back to

Your cheating spouse's failure to show any outward signs of true guilt or remorse after the affair can stand in the way of you moving forward with healing yourself and your relationship You have certain expectations of how your partner should act after being caught cheating